Friday, November 27, 2015

Why do we love SELFIE!

#ATM, # Abs! Abs! Just woke up! No filter!
#ATM. My friend Payee busy with her selfie as I savour
the moment reading at the peak of Pico De Loro. 

Imagine these selfies flooding your FB, twitter and instagram accounts every couple of hour? Like me, you might be a bit annoyed. Good Lord! What is happening with the world? But what is it with selfie that more and more people get hooked to it?

Good evening ladies and gentlemen! I am Aiza, and tonight, we will talk about that thing called Selfie! And when I say ‘selfie’  that does not mean giving you thousands of reasons to condemn selfie-holics but digging into the science on why do we do it.

The first selfie was taken with a mirror. So we tried to get the feel.
Selfie. The term made it to the Oxford new lexicon late of 2013.  It means  a photograph taken of oneself typically taken with a smart phone or a webcam and shares it via social media. Many thought this is a millennial thing but back in 1839, a renowned American photographer, Robert Cornelius had already taken the first selfie. And it was not until early 2000s when the term was officially mentioned during an Australian Internet Forum.

Photo from justcreative.com
As we speak, there are more or less 300 million photos tagged as selfie in Instagram alone. Add FB and other social media and you will a more overwhelming figure. But really, what is it with selfie that even after 176 years since it was first recorded, it’s still on its pinnacle to fame? Well, different social media platforms + affordable smartphones + free internet connection =  SELFIE! Upload! Like! Like! Like!

Do people take selfie merely for self-expression or vanity?
In her article Psychology of Selfies, Dr. Courtney Seiter explains that people like to take selfie as  a self-portrait and as self-expression. We want our selfies to define us. 

Another thing is that we want to feel important. A selfie with Pope for example makes you feel involved. "Hey look at me I was there when Pope was here! I participated! 

My sister Ellen and I having a blast taking selfie on a cold
morning in Baguio City.
Moreover, selfies won’t gain its fame without our support. Maybe after posting 10 selfies and you don’t get some likes and the call of courtesy comments like, “pretty!, gorgeous! Nicceee!”, you would quit. But no! As much as we fancy taking photos of faces,we also fancy  viewing photos with faces. That is because humans notice faces first. On Instagram for example, pictures with human faces  are 38% more like to receive likes and comments against those with none. 

As I peeked to comments of the selfie articles I’ve read, considered worst selfies are those taken without apparent purpose or those taking selfie for the sake of it. Interesting selfiesare those with something interesting to see.Writing this speech made me remember a friend telling me that people like to have selfies to be famous. I beg to differ because currently, we have the Kardashians, Rihanna, Paris Hilton, P Diddy acing it for the most selfies among celebrities with more or less 300 selfies on average.

Psychology says selfie is neither vanity nor a mental illness.  Selfie is one way of crafting our own identity. On the other side of the pan, selfie may pose danger as well. The number of accidents happened while having selfie is accumulating and there are also researches saying it could both boost and lower self-esteem.

We are the master of our own ships. WE have a lot of options on how to use selfie to our own advantage.  So if it makes you feel connected sharing #ATM, if it inspires you to do more to maintain those abs, if it makes you special waking up just the way you are, then take more selfies!

Life is too short to stop yourself from doing what makes you happy. But life is also too short to be a victim of the emerging technology as well. 


(Basic Speech No. 7, Pioneer Trailblazers Toastmasters Club, Makati City)

Saturday, November 21, 2015

Random Awesome Sites for Ultimately Bored People

Welcome! I'll guess why you are here. Of course you are ultimately bored as me and I know just few random awesome sites that could be an antidote.

1) Psychology Today - If you want expert opinions and/or explanations on why the sky is blue, if
crocodiles really cry, how the color of your dress affects you dog's mood and many, many others, then this site is good to pass your boredom. Psychology Today covers a wide array of topics--addiction, behavior, gender, philosophy, politics, etc.-- written by a number of psychology mavens. Personally, I never miss a day of checking out the site every break time at the office to check what's new and interesting as they usually react to current trends.

2) Investopedia - Personally, I hate to talk about finance but when I get to work at an insurance company I gradually realized how serious this is. I mean who would want to be still working damn hard until the last years of their lives? Who would want to live from payday to payday all the time? Checking investopedia.com at your leisure hours even if you are not into it will be surely beneficial to you. It talks about personal finance, investing, trading, wealth management and many others.

3) Coursera - Every bored people who wants to be still productive should visit this site. It offers a
wide a array of courses for FREE! Plus you'll get specified courses for few dollars and a certificate. Courses Coursera offered are hosted by different prestigious universities from different parts of the world and participated globally so you'll gain not only education but worldwide friends.

4) 9gag - If you just want to chill out your boredom then Go Fun Yourself at 9gag. It is just darn hilarious at the same time educational.


5)YouTube - Don't judge me! We all know YouTube and the entertainment it brings not only for those who are bored but also to those who are not.


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Saturday, November 7, 2015

10 Mga Nakakaasar na Eksena sa Jeepney


1)      Yung pilang daig pa ang blockbuster movie sa sinehan tapos yung mga kapwa mo
pasaherong kakarating lang ay dumiretsong sakay pagkadating na pagkadating.

2)      Yung ipinagssisikan ng drayber na 9 talaga ang dapat makaupo kahit wala ng mapaglagyan. Sabi pa, 'Kaya yan, tiwala lang'. Saveey?!

3)      Yung sinasabihan ka ng drayber na galaw-galaw nalang para magkasya. Eh, Kuya ang sikip na nga diba! Paano pa makakagalaw!

4)      Yung mga pasaherong di marunong mag-abot ng bayad. Di mo matantiya kung busy o wala lang talaga sa sarili.

5)      Yung mga drayber na di marunong mag-abot ng sukli.

6)      Yung mga Mamang mahilig sa manspreading. Yung totoo Kuya gaano ba kalaki yang sayo at kung makabukaka ka diyan ay wagas habang si Nanay sa tabi mo ay ipit na ipit?

7)      Yung mga pasaherong insensitib. Imagine sobrang sikisikan sa jeep. Tapos may mga bumaba. Pero siksikan pa rin sa kabila habang ang luwag sa kabila. Ate, makiramdam din pag may time, di puro FB lang.

8)      Yung mga mamang busy sa kaka-COC habang si Lolo ay nakakabit sa jeep. Totoy, baka makahingi ng konting awa sa tuhod ni Lolo.

9)      Yung mga drayber na tamad huminto. Pumara ka na sa babaan at lahat dire-diresto pa rin. Ayan tuloy kailangan mo pa sumakay ulit pabalik sa sobrang layo ng hinituan.

10)   Yung mga pasaherong kung makasigaw ng ‘Para!’ ay parang wala ng bukas. Nagagalit pa kung hindi nakahinto sa gusto niyang pahintuan. Alam namang bawal doon.



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Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Nganong Lisod Kaayo Muingon ug 'NO'

Padulong nako pauli ug kay gusto man lagi ta ug bugnaw, sulod sa mall gyud ko muagi. Kada-adlaw, ako ginabaybay ang Greenbelt, Glorietta paingon sa LandMark ug SM, ug sa kani nga mga lakaw, ako jud nga pugson ang ako kaugalingon sa pag lakaw nga way lingi-lingi. Lisod na ug makapalit ta ug dili oras. Imagine P120,000 sa usa lang ka sunglasses? Haroy yuta naman jud na ako mapalit. So as usual, sutoy ra gyud ko.

Pero wa gyud ko kapalag pag agi nako sa Black Pearl nga booth. Sige ra ko ni ug agi-agian ug kung manawag na gani ang salesman, mulingiw dayo ko ug mupaspas ug lakaw. Apan karon, tam-is kaayo ang smile ni salesman nga ibutang lang nato sa pangalan nga Harry kay nakalimot ko. Actually, nagpaila-ila biya siya apan di lang gyud nako mahinumduman kay busy kaayo siya ug pangutana nako kung unsa ako gamit.

H: Ma'am, ano po gamit ninyo para sa inyo face?
A: Wala po talaga Sir, pure Safeguard lang.
H: Ahh, ganoon how about moisturizers?
A: Cetaphil cleanser lang po kung meron mahal kasi.
H: Pero madalas kayo magpa-facial?
A: Ay wala din Sir, baka magising mga pores ko (sheet memeng last nalang gyud ka nako bah!)

Wa nako kabanatay nga iya gigunitan ako kamot ug iya ko gidala sa ilang booth para mag-sample. Iyang giunag hanyag sa ako ang peeling mask nga iyang gibutang sa parte sa akong tuong kamot. Nahadlok ko kay basin mag iyahay ug panggawas  ang ako buling. Mahibaw-an nga wa ko kapanglugod ganiha kay nagdali-dali ko ug kaligo.

After mga 2 minutes, iya na gitangtang ang iya gibutang ug tinood nangadala ang ako dead skin ug mga dagkong buling. Amazing! Amazing pod ang presyo kay tag P5,400 ang usa ka gamay nga sudlanan. Good for 1 year daw ug mas best and epekto kon gamitan nimo sa ilang moisturizer nga tag P5,000 pod kapin ang gamay nga botelya. Harroy, ta-ta ang akong Safeguard papaya! Pero nindot man, di jud ko padala kay mahal ra kaayo.

Nag-thank you nako sa effort ni Harry ug ready na mo go-rah sa dihang miabot ang very neat ug gwapong foreigner nga I'm sure dili Americano. Iya kung gisugdan sa pag-ingon nga nindot daw ako earings ug cute daw ko. Juice colored! Murag gibayang ang ako kalag. Ug misamot kini sa dihang miingon siya nga tungod kay cute ko, ihatag nalang niya sa ako ang Black Pearl Peeling Mask ug P2,700 instead nga 5,400. Nakaingon si Harry ug, "Sure ka, Sir!" Ma'am avail mo na to. Anak yan ng may-ari at minsan lang ang ganyang offer!

Aguuy! Unsaon naman nako ni! Kabarato na lang. Ug kagwapo sa naghatag nako ug discount! Lami na kaayo igawas ang ako credt card, pero maayo nalang wa ko patunto. Ako usang gi-imagine and ako mga bayranan ug kung naa ba ko ma-spare para aning ilang pagwapa apan bisag walay calculator kabalo ko nga ma negative gyud ang akong budget. Maayo mu -salestalk ning mga tuway pero naa pod ko sa sales ug ako pod ning ginabuhat. So samtang ila ko gibola-bola, sige rako ug katawa dili tungod kay flattered ko kung dili kay naka huna huna pod ko sa akong mga gema-gema sa pamaligya aron makahalin.

Besides, sa retail world grabe ang patong. Sure ko dili siya lugi bisan ihatag pa to niya ug 1K. Na factor in nana nila sa ilang pag presyo ug grabe ang ilang ganansiya kung mupatol ka sa tag P5,400. Hoy, Dong di tika padatuon ug samot!


So mao to mga friends, lisod man, pero kung dili kaya sa budget, firm jud ang NO! Kay kung dili,gwapa lagi ka pero ga sakripisyo pod imo budget. Oh siya, muuli nako ug manghilam-os sa ako Safeguard Papaya! LOL


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Sunday, November 1, 2015

Climbing Mt. Pulag -DIY

“Static people don’t fall! You fell because you were either climbing, or running. This is a sign that you are on track. Don’t stop where you fall; rise up and do it again!” 
― Israelmore AyivorDaily Drive 365
During a break for business presentation skills training, a mountain climbing junkie and colleague mentioned he is to climb Mt. Pulag, solo. The wanderlust blood in me rushed in. And before we knew it, five of us found ourselves at Victory Liner - Pasay for the trip.


At around 4:30 am, we finally arrived at Baguio. Freezing, we went down Session Road for some walking so as to hunt for gloves and of course, breakfast to pacify our growling tummies. All of my climbing companions here are officemates except Kuya Michael who is working in a BPO. 

Being the only girl, I was pushed by the men to charm (of which I bet didn't work) the van driver to get a discount for our trip to Bokod, Benguet. At P2500, he finally agreed to take us up to the ranger station. Another 2 climbers arrived and we were just so happy to share a ride with them to lessen our fare. A couple of minutes later, we were on our way to DENR-Kabayan that took care of the orientation for all Pulag climb. 

A typhoon has just a passed around the area putting our climb in jeopardy. In fact, we were not allowed to climb until the last minute. It had been pouring real hard the days prior of our climb. Fortunately, the weather brighten on the climb day. But then there was a landslide on the way up so we took a motorcycle in lieu of the van.

We were starving for lunch when
we arrived at the ranger station. Too bad as there were no carenderia food sold around the vicinity as they were not expecting climbers after the bitching weather. Luckily, a sari-sari store offered us to cook what we bought from them. Thank heavens!


Kuya Michael and JJ  ready to explore the mossy forest.

As work often demands me to travel once in a while, I stopped going to the gym (Ehem, lame excuse). My last climb was four months ago. And my heart was starting to fail me. It behaved as if it was not used to walking with a heavy baggage. Add the freezing temperature and I was ready to give up. I felt dizzy and my nose felt like it was ready to fall anytime. I was tempted to pretend I was good but my surrounding started to blur. Then and there I asked our guide to carry my bag. 
Panting like hell at Mt. Pulag's Camping Ground 2

Seemingly battered comfort rooms. But in such area, it does really provide comfort. Hoho!

The Boys enjoying  groufie.
With lots of chitchats, once in a while rest, and occasional sharing of trail food, we finally arrived at Camp 2. I was so excited to see a comfort room. It seemed uncomfortable but then again, bawal ang mapili sa bundok. My colleagues washed up after we set our tent. I did not bother. It was too cold for me. I thought I was just hungry and maybe the shivering will be gone after a meal. It did not. And it was getting worse. My head hurt. I was frantic how I supposed to last the night. Day 1 was over.

At around 5 am, we started our trek to the summit.
Mt. Pulag off the bucket list.
The Boys were not just contented of getting up there. They also wanted to show off their muscles (supposed there is any:) up there. Kidding aside, they just wanted to test if their fats can withstand the cold.

The view on the way and up the peak is spectacular. We were very lucky to have the Camp and the peak all for ourselves as there were no other climbers the day before. We were even more lucky because just right after we set foot back at the Ranger Station, a heavy rain began to take over the sunny sky. All climbers on that day were advised not to go. 

Despite the seemingly endless cold night, I would say Mt. Pulag is worth the climb. I wondered before why this peak made it to almost all Filipino climber's list and even foreign. On my way up, I saw it myself. The people, the mossy forest, the wild berries, the vibrantly colored flowers, the trees that seemed like a garden of broccoli, the sea of clouds and the frostbiting weather--they are just too hard to resist.

Expense

P890 Bus Fare to Baguio (back and forth)
P65 Breakfast
P60/5 Cab Fare Session Road to Terminal
P2500/5 Van Fare From Baguio to Kabayan
P250 Kabayan to Baguio
P150 DENR fee
P500 motorcycle fare (back and forth)
P80 overnight fee at camp 2
P600/5 guide fee -
P190/5 lunch
P65 lunch for day 2